As I head into Week 4 of my LYJ Search Class, I am posting what I will be asking students tonight to consider. This is an exercise that comes straight from Julia Cameron’s The Artist’s Way. It’s a tool that gets you to think freely about possibilities for joyful work, without self-imposed limitations. Here goes:
Five Imaginary Lives If you had five other lives to lead, what would you do in each of them? I would be a pilot, cowhand, a physicist, a writer, a psychic, a monk. You might be a scuba diver, a cop, a writer of children’s books, a football player, a belly dancer, a painter, a performance artist, a history teacher, a healer, a coach, a scientist, a doctor, a Peace Corps worker, a psychologist, a fisherman, a minister, an auto mechanic, a carpenter, a sculptor, a lawyer, a painter, a computer hacker, a soap-opera star, a country singer, a rock-and-roll drummer. Whatever occurs to you, jot it down. Do not overthink this. The point of these lives is to have fun in them – more fun than you might be having in this one.
My addendum to Julia Cameron’s exercise is that in these lives you have all the tools, talent, money and help you need to be successful at whatever you choose.
I don’t think that you should run out and change careers as a result of the answers to this question, but I do believe they provide clues about meaningful activities that could bring your life joy, and perhaps, a new career path to explore especially as we prepare to enter a new year and new decade. I like to ask students what’s one tiny action they can take toward one of the items on their list. For example, when someone in my last class wrote down artist, her tiny action was buying one tube of paint and a paint brush.
My 5 Imaginary Lives are things I dabble in already: Writer, Artist, Musician, Cookie Baker and Tea Shop Owner. Lately I’ve been adding a sixth which is Astronomer. What are your 5 imaginary lives?
Ooooh – love love love this exercise. So my 5 “imaginary” lives are…
* Writer
* Speaker
* Feminist activist
* Sociologist
* TV commentator
… and to anyone who hasn’t read Julia Cameron’s books, HIGHLY recommend all of them. Today I’m inching closer to truly and fully living this list. By contrast, 10 years ago when I first discovered Julia’s work these 5 “imaginary” lives seemed like pipe dreams (and I’m talking On Crack Pipe Dreams – they seemed so far out of the realm of possibility given I was working as a financial analyst & portfolio manager!). The power of repeatedly taking one tiny step forward as Suzanne so wisely highlights is truly amazing.
And while I’m gushing, let me also say that if you are struggling with a career change & you haven’t signed up for a LYJ Search Class… you should! Suzanne has a true gift for helping people figure out how to bring their imaginary and their real lives together. My friendship with Suzanne has changed my life – one tiny, powerful action step at a time.
This is a fun one, Suzanne. But you’ve cheated a bit! I KNOW some of these “imaginary” lives are not so imaginary. You’ve done the juicy work of incorporating some of them into your life. Mine would be:
Mayor
Memoirist
Cupcake Shop Owner
LEED Certified Architect
Social Entrepreneur
Thanks Manisha and Alexia! LOVE your “imaginary” lives. You both are a continual source of inspiration.
My five imaginary lives would be: writer, social entrepreneur, architecture historian, sustainable vegetable gardener, and photographer.
My big personal goal for 2010 is learning how to garden. I want to grow my own food in my new backyard, make yummy recipes from this food, and learn how to make cheese in my kitchen (inspired by Barbara Kingsolver). LYJ readers: help me stay accountable to this goal!
Love these, Alyssa! Consider yourself held accountable for gardening and cheesemaking in 2010:) Look forward to hearing what you create.
This is a really great exercise and not as easy as I initially thought.
-A jazz pianist and singer
-A comedian/comedic actress on Saturday Night Live
-A professional photographer, both photojournalist and artist
-An environmental activist
-Mayor of NYC